If you think swinging (alternative lifestyle, wife swapping) is going to be a great way to find someone to replace your existing partner forget it
Swapping partners with your friends is not a good idea - No matter how well you think you know them, they may be not be as open as you thought.
They also may have a secret agenda of their own - one you may regret at a later date (making each other jealous, gossip gathering, future leverage)..

If you have hinted about it to your partner and got a curious or positive response you will probably need to discuss it further before taking the plunge.
The swinging lifestyle is based on a frank exchange of intimate information and belief in the existing relationship. Honesty with each other, sincerity in your
commitment to each other as a couple and a willingness to try new things together are what can make an ordinary relationship extraordinary

Speak to other swingers, listen to their advice. You may be surprised by your own reactions and emotions and decide that swinging is not for you.

Still interested, read or download - Swinging Guidelines pdf  or   view as html - to help you prepare for your new adventure.