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Should we, shouldn't we - Go from vanilla to beginner swinger. It is very important that you speak to your partner openly about your desire to swing. Honestly outlining why you want to, what you hope to achieve, how often you think you may want to engage in swinging activities. If you think swinging is going to be a great way to find someone to replace your existing partner forget it. Swinging couples tend to have very stable relationships and will quickly tell each other if you overstep your bounds or suggest that they should overstep theirs. The swing scene is based on a frank exchange of intimate information, honesty with each other, sincerity in the couples commitment to the existing relationship and is an expression of their respect for each other as individuals. If you connect online with another couple tell your partner about it. Swinging is all about sharing and is not about furthering your own interests or making separate contacts. Ideally online swinging time should be spent together, although work schedules and other commitments do not always make this possible. Decide whether you are going to swing openly (this is who we are) or discretely (tell no one). Just a note if you have decided to be discrete it is advisable to apply that discretion across the board - do not pick and choose who to tell and who not, you will only end up confused and constantly fear that one of your confidants might slip up and accidentally tell someone that you would prefer not know your private life. Limits What If Jealousy