Setting the tone for your personal comfort zone - Decide in advance, the guidelines you set yourselves will be a great help in finding like minded partners with whom
you can feel comfortable.
1) What level of sexual encounter you feel fine with - Are you looking to meet others in person or do you just want to add a little excitement to your existing relationship. How much excitement - do you just want to talk with others, just talk and exchange photos or meet up to take things further. 2) So you want to meet people - ask yourself do you want a one off encounter or are you looking for long term friendships. If you are thinking swinging (once you have convinced your partner) will be a neat way to get to sleep with your partners' sister, brother, friend etc., as part of a swinging night, think again. It is likely you will loose your partner, your friends and your self respect. 3) How far will you go - Soft swing (Same room sex with another couple but you do not switch partners) or Full swing (Sex with partners other than and including your own) Is penetration Ok? What's your stance on same sex sex. Are there any sex acts that you would not wish anyone other than your partner to perform on you. Are there any sex acts that you would not wish your partner to see you perform or be seen performing. If you are sure you both agree then proceed on your chosen course of action. Now you are ready find other swingers Swinging Clubs, Sex Boards and Groups, Newsgroups. |