4) Before setting out to a club, private party or to meet a new
couple. Let your appreciation for each other show through, nothing is more attractive then seeing the
love two people have for each other. Always figure out in advance what your responses will be to these often encountered beginers dilemas a) Meeting someone you know - couple b) Meeting someone you know - only one half of the couple with an unknown party If you are in the swinging lifestyle it is expected that others will respect your wishes and keep your participation in the lifestyle undisclosed. Likewise you should respect other peoples' privacy, even if you operate an open policy. c) Not being in agreement about a couple - I like him but my partner doesn't like her or vice versa d) It's my monthly e) Pressure to do more than you want or you thought you would have fun but it's turning into a nightmare and now you would like to leave. It is usual for couples to have a set of keywords that they use within the general conversation (rather like a secret code) that tells their partner what they would like to do without causing any embarrassment or offense. What words or phrases will you choose to silently communicate with your partner. f) Things are fabulous, what about the baby sitter did you check it would be OK if you are late or do not expect to get home that night. g) Agree not to disagree - no one wants a couple who are trying to score points. h) Don't flame other couples. |