Drink and Drugs Like any other social gathering anyone who is drunk, spaced out or high will be avoided and asked to leave at the first opportunity. The clubs are no different from your local bar/restaurant just the clientele dress more provocatively. Dress Code It is not necessary to dash out and buy a wardrobe of sexy outfits. Ask the club host/hostess what is acceptable - it may be dressing gowns, casual wear, lingerie and boxers or full fetish gear. Usually loose fitting smart but casual clothing is fine for most visits. Extroverts will dress according to their comfort level and you should dress to suit yours. Recommended online stores Theme Nights Details of these events will be posted in advance, giving you plenty of time to find that special outfit. It is not necessary to dress the part but it sure is much more fun if you do, no need to feel self conscious everyone else will be too busy letting their hair down to notice. Personal Space Nudity, heavy petting and wandering hands are not the norm. Most club goers are polite and will ask if they can touch, simply state your limits or politely say no. No offense will be taken and non should be given if you get refused. Although it is not necessary to give a reason, it is often the case that the person in question wants to get to know you better first or would like their partner to meet you too. So be respectful to others, word gets around. Off Site Applies to most of Canada. If you think you will see lots of copulating couples for free get your head out of the clouds. As stated earlier the clubs have the same governing rules as your local bar or restaurant. So if you want to move on from kissing, fondling and erotic caresses get a room. Several of the clubs will have thoughtfully negotiated preferential rates with local motels, hotels and inns. On Site Some Canadian and American clubs, in accordance with local laws, are allowed to permit sex acts between consenting adults on premises. Activity rooms are clearly marked. Check with club first as to what is and what is not acceptable and what items you should provide. Please note it is considered bad taste : to stand and watch for an extended period of time; to leave your partner in the general area while you go have a good time for a few hours; to take photos; to not have your condoms; to not have your own toiletries. |