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How to enjoy anal sex

The anus is ringed with nerve endings making it ultra sensitive. The passageway is tighter than the vagina and does not have its' own lubrication system.

The passageway tilts toward the front of your body for the first three inches then curves towards the back for a few inches. So start out slowly.

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fingernails please, no sharp objects and no transfering objects from the anus into the vagina and vice versa. There is no such thing as too much lubrication,

do not use a desensitizing or numbing lube - it is possible to injure yourself without knowing. Wear unpowdered latex gloves and use condoms on dildos or penis.

Start with caressing and touching the anal area until the conditions are right for you to introduce a finger. It is not uncommon for your partner to grab your hand

and urge you in. Progress size wise from there. Note - the sphincter muscles natural reaction is to close - relax and concentrate on how good it all feels and all should

be well, however, if anything feels uncomfortable stop - do not force things. Anal sex is a gradual process and only you know what is right for you at any given time.

Anal dildos have flanged bases to prevent them from slipping and so you can hold them better. A 4 inch rigid model is enough, if you want more length buy a flexible toy.

Many people do not explore this practice further because their partners used too large a toy or went gently until they were inside then proceeded to pound mercilessly.

So if you want anal sex to be part of your sex life respect your partners wishes.

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