Anal Orgasm
A lot of women acheive ejaculation when the g-spot or clitoris is targeted through the anus. Although a great orgasm will result for both of you from anal penetration alone. The anus is ringed with nerve endings. This makes it ultra sensitive, the passageway is generally tighter than the vagina (as it does not have its' own lubrication system). The passageway tilts toward the front of your body for the first three inches, then it curves towards the back for a few inches. For these reasons it is always best to start out slowly. Short rounded fingernails and no sharp objects are obvious rules as is no transfering objects from the anus into the vagina and vice versa. Note there is no such thing as too much lubrication, however do not use a desensitizing or numbing lube - it is possible to injure yourself without knowing and not condusive with feeling connected to your partner. The use of unpowdered latex gloves and condoms on dildos or penis will protect you from germs. To ensure your anus is clean treat your self to an Anal Shower Head from Priape - (See Sex Toys - miscellaneous) First start with caressing and touching ( the anal area until the conditions are right for you to introduce a finger. It is not uncommon for your partner to grab your hand and urge you in. Progress size wise from there. Please note that the sphincter muscles natural reaction is to close - relax and concentrate on how good it all feels and all should be well, however, if anything feels uncomfortable stop - do not force things. It is a gradual process and only you know what is right for you at any given time. Anal dildos have flanged bases to prevent them from slipping in and also so you can hold them better. When selecting a dildo for anal use size has to be a primary consideration. Trust us a 4 inch rigid model is enough, if you want more length make sure you have a flexible toy. Too many people do not explore this practice further because their partners effectively tried to force a telegraph pole through the eye of a needle or went gently until they were inside then proceeded to pound mercilessly. These partners then proceeded to get mad because the recipient didn't want to try it again - after all it must be easy you see it in porn all the time! So if you are going to try anal sex respect your partners wishes - it will be better for you in the long term |
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