The number one objection to using sex toys is that people think their is something wrong with theirselves.
The morals police have convinced you, if you are interested in sex toys, you are "dirty".
Given that sex toys are used mainly for masturbation this attitude is not suprising, after all when you were little you were told don't play with yourself, your pleasure did not count, the embarassment factor of the adult reigned supreme. Now that you are an adult you know you're not supposed to play with toys and if you ask anyone you know if they masturbate chances are they will say no. ... This is the real world - Adults do both and love it, they lie about it in much the same way that they lie about reading, looking at and watching pornography. There is nothing wrong with using sex toys so treat yourself today. When both partners feel the closeness, trust, fun and pleasure that sex toys can bring, any worries you may have had, should give way to excited anticipation of your next night of passion. The days of visiting adult stores or holding/attending an adult toy party have passed, online ordering makes it possible for you to get the information, compare products and purchase a sex toy without being seen by someone you know. Most Canadian and American stores respect your privacy and use plain packaging, have secure payment facilities, do not pass your details to third parties and have 24 hour support. You may have heard that : a) If you use sex toys you must have/or be a sexually inadequate partner. That is rather like saying if you use a washing machine to do your laundry you failed as a homemaker. Sex toys are designed to enhance your sex life and relationships not to replace them. Sex toys can not perform all the sex acts that your partner can do and often get cast aside in the heat of passion. So let your partner know what things you love them doing... don't be shy speak up. b) Normal people don't use sex toys ... they don't need them Survey after survey found that sex toys are used by teachers, doctors, housewifes, singles, married couples and so on i.e. normal people do use them and apparently like using them. c) It might damage me. Sex toys come in several sizes, shapes and materials and are designed specifically for vaginal or anal insertion. Manufacturers have already considered the ergononics and logistics before producing their product. Before purchasing a sex toy research what is available, how it can be used and most important think of your own comfort. d) Sex toys are only used for masturbation, Sex toys are used for masturbation, but that's not all. They are visually very arousing and help to set the mood, great as part of foreplay, anal teasing and for risk free double penetration. e) Once you start you won't be able to orgasm without them, There again you might orgasm just thinking about what you did together with them. Why stop there, what other positions and techniques can you try. A healthly sex life is full of new stimuli. In conclusion providing you do not offend your partner there is nothing wrong with owning and using a sex toy. |